To forgive and how I found my way there for myself.
First to say as I see forgiving is not forgetting it happened, allowing that behavior in our life anymore, or for the actions themselves to be seen as ok.
Instead it is a moving to beyond our experience within the negative aspects it carries, the darkness it holds in form of ignorance and unconsciousness, which can dangerously loop us in.
Using its fire to switch the script and use the experience to transcend that version of our story for ourselves.
When we look this way at our experiences and are able to flip this within ourselves we can begin to forgive it as a whole story.
This is the forgiveness, to see it in new light for self and cut the loop the experiences patterns keep us trapped in.
So now I can say:
I forgive them as I now see clearly they were unconscious, not equipped, had not the tools or knowing and how to provide or apply themselves for me in a nurturing field.
I see also I myself was not equipped with the tools, not yet in my power around this experience so I fell into it, so I too forgive myself for that self abandonment I was to endure.
I too then carried these patterns onward with me as I was still not in my power around its direction for me and had not the tools or knowing on how to provide and apply myself to others in my life whom where also there to receive my nurturing. And so too their stories are felt and told around this.
Until something clicked in me and I decided to own these patterns in a new light for myself. Taking responsibility for my own evolution within it and to see something different for myself, therefore also extending out in service for others I am in relations with.
Break free of those patterns and the not knowing, to provide myself with tools to evolve the patterns themselves.
So in seeing more clearly now I too forgive myself with this, as I see I was not yet equipped.
I did to my capabilities of knowing, as to did they. This is now in my viewing received as only forgivable for all.
I can see and am able to forgive because I learned the tools for myself to see beyond the patterns veiling and now I see clearer its ways.
I forgive wholeheartedly them, me and the whole energetics of its experience upon us all.
I am now flying freer as a ripple of this forgiveness because I have let go of a form of unconscious attachment that tethered and restricted my sense of freedom for myself. I was allowing it to keep itself attached to my energetic field by avoiding the act of forgiving it all.
Forgiveness is a powerful energy but it most often does not happen right away. Much else must precede in the healing and the transcending of it before forgiveness can be integral and complete in the cycle.
We move forward by allowing that process and accepting every facet of the healing journey that presents itself, yet with a deeper devotion to also shift it all in our process somewhere.
The fullness and time for the threshold of completion in the forgiveness comes when we have reached our readiness to see it deeper, beyond the veiling, for ourselves. There can be no pretending forgiveness as the universal energies know better.
When it happens there will be felt a gentle, loving, yet very powerful organic lifting and releasing that feels to be freed up from our identity of who we feel we are and released back to the potentialities field of wholeness.
When this moment of forgiveness is upon us and we follow it through, everything shifts for us! This is how we know its truth has happened for us.
Our world becomes a whole new world and from that moment forward we feel deeply the knowing in the gift upon ourselves of the wisdom and the tool of forgiveness as we evolve forward into more of it.
We now know we hold, embrace and embody the relative art of forgiveness to be able to be applied when called for.
On a relative view in owning our own empowerment we can see life is a series of flowing forgiveness in many presented forms.
To master this forgiveness is to flow with life more powerfully, gift ourselves a taste of freedom and an extending of our maturity to nuture those we are intimate and in relations with.
And....
Paradoxically on an even higher perspective from an absolute view as our enlightenment we can see that "there truely is nothing to forgive". As all is as it is called to be in the name of the One Knowing.
All is "for us" on a deeper Soul level, for the purpose of expansion. A chosen reason for it all behind the veils, although harsh to experience sometimes.
We can hold and move as both of these truths, these ways, simultaneously. That is the Wholeness of it all. That is who we are without seperation, the Wholeness.
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